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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



You ask by yourself this issue if you experience essential obstacles during a romantic relationship.

perform these problems indicate we should just work much harder in your relationship? Or tend to be these problems a signal it’s time and energy to move ahead?

You fundamentally arrive at considered one of three options:

  1. You remain, knowingly focus on the partnership, and it also helps.
  2. You depart, knowingly create nice and clean pause and log in to with the living.
  3. You keep, wishing circumstances will alter, expecting your husband or wife will somehow notice mild, intending something may come along to more or less “force” your partnership to enhance.

This option that is third completely crazy-making, and all way too typical. Yourself sinking—maybe very slowly, quietly—into the relationship quicksand, here are a few tips if you find:

Be honest with ourselves

A chronic cheater or an alcoholic, don’t delude yourself if your partner is, for example. Be if you opt to keep, but think your husband or wife will continue these behaviors. By remaining, you might be quietly accepting to withstand these.

In the event that you keep, produce a break that is clean especially initial

More straightforward to make a terrible choice than no choice after all.

Be responsible.

If you’re dating a dud, then realize your personal very poor choice. There are numerous seafood in the sea, why do you pick this amazing tool? I have it—You didn’t understand he/she was a dud when you began matchmaking. But once more, this one’s for you. Good commitment begins with your best option of mate, therefore you really need to establish quite refined “bullshit alarm.” This comes from once you understand on your own.

Remember: getting solitary does make you a n’t problems, being inside a relationship does not cause you to a success.

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The consensus would be that either he had been having a continuing relationsip of some type even though not intimate before finish together with her (and this ended up being plannedif she has kids)or she is very trusting or desperate or mad to allow a stranger to move in. We are however talking etc to see each other also to sort stuff away and walk pet etc and we however log on to (although I’m reining in being angry out of the house etc so I’m protected at him for selfish reasons – i.e. it is in my iterests to ensure the house does get signed over to me) and he is very happy to let things move at their own pace, I’m the one pushing to buy him. Feels as though he’s trying to keep a foot in both camps.

We appreciate it happens to be days that are early I am nonetheless raw/cross and never really pleased together with the basic principles of somebody otherwise therefore quickly ( while the trick). However, being a consequence I have gone from getting acceptable with splitting (our company is untangling the finances etc right now) to declaring breakup on first step toward adultery (legitimately I can it appears). We will probably hold off into a false sense of security which sounds terrible until I have the house signed over though and lull him.

My personal views happen to be that the) He’s managed to move on and I also’d choose to try to b)I can’t see how I’d want him straight back actually then do it again to divorce then we might as well do it now if he asked c) if we are going to have to do a load of legal stuff to separate and.

I did so inquire him or her about separation and divorce before I knew most of us did not have to await a couple of years and then he was not troubled and seemed keen not to ever collect unique partner required. I obtain it will just take 5 mths to divorce anyway.

So what would you lads feel??

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What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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