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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell



EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth

PAGE COUNT: 150


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We dumped a person because she cheated on me. Got that sexist?

Maybe I’m taking a separate method than many other document article authors

To quickly clarify my personal situation, I’m a professional scholar throughout my mid-twenties, and was at a passionless long-term (three-years) union until last year. After that devotion stopping, I’ve desired to grow simple potential at fulfilling unique associates for the recreation from the online world. I don’t imagine my favorite experience there is atypical, so I fulfilled a lot of wonderful individuals, but very few who does commit to such a thing beyond a couple periods.

Some time ago, I came across a professional individual (hereon termed by) with an identical history to myself personally. We all struck it all very well, and set about observing one another. However by is experiencing difficulty together with her personal, along with being returning house soon until situation pan down and tend to be sorted out. Considering the instances, she ended up being hesitant to invest in anything also established, therefore most people agreed to determine both entirely but little as well big. We consented to become monogamous, but especially gave my place: As a laid-back lovers in a connection, absolutelyn’t something holding beyond the monogamy dialogue, I really just ask for advised in the event the agreement is actually damaged. All I require are receptivity, while the possibility to reassess if instances alter.

Time period passes by, and everything is running smoothly. Us are becoming better, and I’m thinking about options to make items much more “official”. Latest I spotted the girl got Tuesday day, back when we have a work big date and expended the evening with each other.

Exactly how prescient I found myself in my organizing and receptivity debate, it turns out. X refers to us to enquire to discover together on Saturday (it’s wednesday as I’m crafting), but lets slip (with a touch of inquiring, certainly not straightforward) that this hoe slept employing the neighbors after ingesting extreme evening before (when I concerned ten minutes away in my close friends). This neighbor provides before started hanging out (I’ve fulfilled him several times), but might taking part in both “nice dude” and “slut shaming” tasks, basically insulting X to the woman face and contacting the woman a slut for asleep with me. Naturally, i used to be unhappy, but typically with her jdate selection of mate. She apologized amply, proclaiming that she’s a “trainwreck” and feared all along of injuring me.

We have a history of melancholy, self-destruction endeavours, mental illness, and business partners cheat on me. X knew on this, although I’m comparatively well composed right now. I’m greatly damage by her behavior, which I – within my complicated psyche – turn into an assessment of myself personally. However harm i will be, I dont like to project my own condition and difficulties, and minimum almost all does one should repeat the hurtful phrase of the neighbor. We presented personally the day to believe, but chosen i possibly couldn’t stick with X any further.

Fundamentally, we thought we would differentiate using this union without inflicting needless damages (it’s not location to “teach a lesson”) or reinforcing slum-shaming sexist norms. I’m an extremely advanced personal, and I also truly try to posses myself personally to large measure of equivalence. I believe I became wronged, which is justification for closing issues, but hardly anything else. Most of us consented to monogamy, so when which was busted I decided i really couldn’t trust her any more and don’t decide additional mental problems or drama. We instructed times that this gal has nothing wrong, but had violated our believe. She asked if things couldn’t only return just how they’d recently been before, but we believed they may definitely not. I’m disgusted that neighbor’s video game properly paid back, and I feel as if this individual grabbed advantage of the lady. Despite, which is them worry instead of mine, and from our role overall of these i will merely respond. We informed her i did son’t need to see the woman once again despite how well every single thing ended up going up until this point.

Yesterday (Sunday) she contacted me inquiring if I’d talk to the lady.

I’m disappointed concerning instances, but want it had not panned out in this a manner. Do i actually do the proper things? You can react to “cheating” without strengthening sexism or bitch shaming? Exactly what can I did differently? What can I perform if she contacts me personally once again?

What About the Other 90%??



What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.




Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.



Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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