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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



There’s the one thing I recognize about myself well in the case of interactions.

I am not saying okay with a female are associates along with her ex or discussing with this model ex daily.

I realize that’ll sturdy slightly prevailing or controlling however I honestly dona€™t care in this case. Probably really a little jaded because I have come across a great deal in connection with exes i understand when that exes are family they usually does indeedna€™t determine.

Without a doubt, I would like to can get face this.

Will you be ok with a woman that you are a relationship or wedded to are close friends along with her ex?

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Hmm.. allow me to rotate the knife little for you personally.

Suppose your brand new (made up) girlfriend is better pals together ex. Somebody that accustomed sleeping together, just who accustomed touching the girl in the tips you get to. The gf talks to them ex daily in which he provides the girl with psychological support (help this is certainly designed to come from you.)

Would you be all right in times that way?

Ia€™ll confess that We definitely wouldna€™t getting ok with a predicament that way.

So, how can we utilize this knowledge for our benefits?

By coming to be their exes good friend needless to say!

Come To Be Among Them Pals

Right now your main goal happens to bena€™t likely to be on your own ex girlfriend in return.

I understand that might appear odd and detrimental however if you really consider this, ita€™s maybe not.

Like I stated above, it is reasonably unusual for men become okay with all the fact that his sweetheart or wife is excellent buddies along with her ex. Properly, once your exes newer people grabs wind that you simply and your ex are always on speaking terms again (and friends not less) they arena€™t will be too pleased and this refers to planning to result rubbing between him or her and his awesome girl (your ex.)

This basically means, we growing to be family really ex will probably trigger the exes newer man going absolutely ballistic as he discovers that this chick are talking-to you and also this is just what you’re looking for. You are looking for HIM execute every function in causing you to resemble a star.

Supply Emotional Help

Providing emotional support for your specific ex girlfriend (whenever you get close friends) certainly where you stand will beam. Provided you can see them to look at your choice and faith you sufficient that allows you to in I then assurance you’re travelling to finish looking like a star.

Consider it by doing this.

If she cana€™t have the mental support she needs from her own sweetheart but away from you when she makes that unavoidable contrast between you and the man she is going to grab that under consideration.

Right now, we dona€™t want you are duped. When I speak about promoting mental service I’m not talking over assisting this model with her personal commitment. I dona€™t want you to even discuss this lady latest sweetheart after all. If she requires an individual for commitment tips on your I want you to decrease since tactfully as you are able to.

But other things demanding psychological support you will be more this lady boy.

5. Have A Shot At The Being Around Method

Ia€™d want to piggy back away of step four above and talk currently regarding what We consider to be a-game changer for your own circumstances.

Above I earned mention of the simple fact that I wouldna€™t staying alright if a lady I had been internet dating was actually regularly talking to their ex.

Thata€™s where in actuality the a€?being there methoda€? makes a difference.

Exactly what is the becoming around approach?

Becoming truth be told there means: As long as you include a consistent presence during your exes lives it will probably produce plenty of annoyance through the latest person to cause the fall of their romance. But possibly the a large number of outstanding role concerning this approach usually they causes him/her select within brand-new chap but you.

For this reason ita€™s essential to hold back until your ex lover has arrived straight down from the vacation duration before try out this away for the reason that ita€™s when this broad is far more very likely to added along.

Now, before we remove the meaning Ia€™d first want to talk about exactly how that is variety of an approach that’s morally grey.

You may possibly not discover this about me personally but i’ve an exclusive Facebook collection for those who planning through breakups.

One of the things i love to carry out on their behalf include fb physical lives.

Here is where, for 60 minutes, i shall flow live and answer questions.

Herea€™s a screenshot in order to visualize everything I am referfing to,

About last year i recall I had been creating one of these schedules and a true professional whom was inside team was actually enjoying.

(The truth is nevertheless takes place)

Regardless, somebody received inquired about what direction to go in times a€?new persona€? as soon as launched dealing with the getting indeed there process and exactly how fantastic it has been.

Well, the counselor enjoying rightly remarked that every little thing about this is wrong and that you shouldna€™t affect a relationship along these lines.

Could you find out just where this can be heading?

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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