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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



There is no excuse for anybodyaˆ™s partner becoming stating impolite, hostile, and upsetting goods.

Hi, I am Carol and guess Iaˆ™m just aˆ?searchingaˆ?aˆ¦looking for answers or support.

As I proceeded to relocate west (exactly where my personal daughter and her personal relocated (gotta end up being together and the grandkids!) he or she claimed he had been upcoming with me. At that moment we were investing each day with each other each and every night. Although used to do have before we fulfilled him or her it absolutely was never ever an every week things. Nevertheless turned out to be the only things the man wished to create am aˆ?go within the baraˆ? and acquire drunk and it was an awful pattern for me and!

Fast forward. We all received wedded back when we got transported all the way down south and even though i usually worked well and introduced decent money the ingesting carried on until there was a stroke three years previously. I used to be really blessed. Woke up one daily (after till this time not just recalling something in regards to the stroke or even the months adhering to) and that I was aˆ?backaˆ?. Back to anyone I had been before we established ingesting day-after-day (thank heavens!). And aˆ?thataˆ? would be any time our personal challenges started. As escort service in New Orleans LA soon as I quit drinking alcohol (i actually do maybe not remember him or her have ever puffing dope around myself before most of us settled west), I acknowledged I’d grow to be an alcoholic during those several years and desired no an element of being that particular guy again thus I combated it tough (which had beennaˆ™t the simplest part of the entire world for certain!) but my husband persisted consuming each individual dayaˆ¦heavily but aˆ?hidaˆ? the bottles from me personally and said I told him or her after my personal swing that aˆ?i did sonaˆ™t need to see itaˆ?.

Well he would drink each and every night until he or she couldnaˆ™t go, dialogue or prevent fainting before they could take in the meals we prepared for him or her and if the man performed stay conscious for eating it could possibly scarcely understand a shell to his own lips consistently spilling groceries throughout the room ground (just where this individual was adamant on eating). He’s got aˆ?triedaˆ? to decrease a couple of times but that is just what this individual explained meaˆ¦feeling doubtful we watched your budget membership carefully and viewed since he makes 10 plus excursions to your straight back bed or to their pickup exactly where I watched him guzzeling straight vodka from bottles. He had been going right through 2-3 18 bags of alcohol and 3-4 LARGE containers of vodka on his own in per week!

We donaˆ™t imagine he had been smoking dope much in that your time but Iaˆ™m uncertain when he became the EXCEL AT of not telling the truth. But lately if simple 14 years old grand-daughter was actually right here to expend the night (they certainly do that sometimes if not bustling) he received extremely SPENT so a short time which he necessity had the thought to go outside to smoking (I donaˆ™t let it inside the house), placed a tobacco with his mouth, folded into the recliner using tobacco cigarette nonetheless going out of his or her teeth unlit and absolutely passed look for about 2 strong several hours the guy sat by doing this! (we got a pic of your like this.)

However discover one of his dope butts in ashtray call at the gazebo and was actually livid! Dope still is PROHIBITED in South Carolina in which he recognizes that I used to research dopers and arrest all of them understanding that I DISLIKE that information but the man considers itaˆ™s great material (and all of his or her sons both are big DOPE HEADS! Thataˆ™s an entirely various scary history as soon as we decided to go to visit his own kid in Arizona Stateaˆ¦TOTAL HORROR JOURNEY! And do it right facing their small kids and heck the 10 year-old grand-daughter can be quite experienced in cigarette smoking and vaping.

I will be very sad this is so that lengthy, guess since he’s would not have a discussion with me personally about any one of this i have acquired no person to discuss toaˆ¦HE HASNaˆ™T SPOKEN ONE WORD IN MY OPINION IN COMPLETE A MONTH, completely ignores meaˆ¦sleeps in the back bedroom and completely eliminates me personally when heaˆ™s homeaˆ¦which is a whole lot of late since he is CRAZY regularly rather than seeing get the job done like he or she should. I recognize that his or her business are employed (regardless of the herpes virus), she’s a licensed electrician and his service was doing work but they have perhaps not worked a lot this finally 14 days nevertheless he could benaˆ™t talking to myself and so I have no clue if he will be ill or what the deuce is happening!

I am just extremely absolutely disappointed! Under all other RUBBISH, I’m sure is an effective boy but they basically canaˆ™t frequently overcome SOMETHING. He does practically nothing to greatly help me making use of home lifeaˆ¦we look after all funds (i will be resigned now but I have a beneficial revenue in my retirement and SS), guarantee those bills are generally compensated. Keep the residence most neat and nice (that we discover he has got never ever had that prior to, this individual along with his ex lived in filth). I do all large property operate mowing the lawn, trimming, etc. I power-wash the property and porches and do-all this normally when he is definitely sitting on his own buttocks together with phone-in his or her look for a long time and hours and hoursaˆ¦that is he is doing!

WOWaˆ¦am we an IDIOT or exactly what. Actually, Iaˆ™m doing some aˆ?sneakingaˆ? too. Everytime I understood they ordered another package I started getting $20.00 cash out and placing it away. (i usually guarantee there’s enough money in the lender and I also have a cash hide when you look at the safe) but this cash is aˆ?myaˆ? future bucks which he really doesnaˆ™t be informed on. We think if they can creep, conceal, deceive, and LIEaˆ¦.well, two could play that event.

But Iaˆ™m buying my favorite prospect because if he is doingnaˆ™t kill himself together with habits

I used to become a fun affectionate happier gal! I have to become that once again but speculate We donaˆ™t learn how to injure someone like Iaˆ™ve been hurtaˆ¦.maybe I just should get it all-out and putting it down do seem to have forced me to really feel alittle more effective (for an alternate or two). Thank-you if any individual provides the staying power to read through anywhere near this much. I really hope all of you need a very wonderful night and are keeping as well as effectively in this nuts trojan this is happening these days. :).

Hi Carol, sorry relating to your condition. An element of myself claims to inform him or her to go out. Eliminate his or her identity from your checking account, assets, credit card bills, etc. Another parts states to get your help. It won’t improve on its own. I’m Not a lot supportaˆ¦

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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