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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



The video game feature that Tinder so addictive remains. Nevertheless it possess a handful of essential variations, generally that once an accommodate is made it is simply the lady who can punch down the talk.

As long as they dont communicate with their fit within 24 hours, the chap vanish.

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The idea behind they, claims Wolfe, is not hard. Using expressed to lots of women that have been defer dating apps by a constant blast of weird, inexperienced and frequently abusive communications from boys, there looked an evident need for a system that provided some degree of feminine empowerment in digital relationship sphere. Revealingly, Wolfe acknowledges she gets never ever once made use of Tinder.

I tell the woman We have some little admirable men close friends which swipe right on everybody, without having any discernment, merely improve their games and probability of a hook-up. She nods. That might fairly usual on some matchmaking apps. But Bumble provides people the opportunity to certainly not seem like the aggressor, and provides the woman a chance to take a little with additional control than environment says is fine and steer the talk from the beginning. This Can Be related to lady reclaiming that online dating area.

Wolfe gives: everything you are trying to staying may extreme starting point, since if someone does not after that anything will alter. Bumble talks about starting equality. I cant talk on the behalf of the male people, but also in my personal practice once a man thinks declined, or anxieties becoming turned down, these people reply with aggression. Anytime we all eliminate the getting rejected, understanding what exactly is truth be told there is aggressive about?

Nevertheless before we move to your nitty gritty of whether this type of an approach is attractive, or maybe practical, into the youthful unmarried plenty, I have to check with Wolfe why she would probably need back in the realm of online dating applications? After exactly what happened at Tinder, amnt she definitely not tempted to escape to a quiet place around the world and just exposed a bookshop and take upward gardening?

Wolfe laughs and shakes the lady mind. Its crystal clear that for a natural businessman just who, at 19, setup her very own prosperous business at Southern Methodist school design non-profit charity handbag bags, farming is not actually to the cards. It had been a no-brainer that i might stay doing it in tech, but first off I didnt should return back inside dating area at all, she concedes. It had not been actually a thought for me.

She was confident or else by Andrey Andreev, the Russian businessman exactly who co-founded the billion-pound online community Badoo, which, without enormous inside UK, offers 250 million users worldwide. Using found Wolfe while she was working on Tinder, the man received touching the latest May to go over an innovative new mutual business enterprise.

Whitney Wolfe. Photos: Jeff Wilson for Onlooker

Wolfe initially wished to prepare having a positive cultural platform somewhere between Snapchat and Instagram that would convince best good habits between our youth on line. Andreev admired the angle of public responsibility and empowerment, but swayed the to route the concepts into the disruptive world of internet dating software. Hence Bumble came to be.

Along with turning the established societal tradition of males always putting some primary shift on the mind, an element of Bumbles raison detre is championing that incredibly elusive concept of web liability. It’s a lot of visible within its pic texting. While compatible users can submit pictures to each other, each happens to be watermarked with title and shot, frustrating anyone from forwarding some thing (nude photographs, like for example) people do not want screen-shot and forever linked with their dating sites for Korean adults particular identity on the web.

But does Wolfe agree totally that the essential failing in internet dating applications yet would be that they are made by males, running in an incredibly sexist planet?

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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