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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



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It’s likely, nowadays of Tinder, that you’ve noticed almost every possible one-night stand get away organize. And, be they relayed by a colleague or overheard in the workplace, it is in addition likely that you were smitten by exactly how twisting these complex reasons and get-outs may.

The truth is, many of these practices are convoluted – as well as morally murky – so it’s a compact surprise a lot of these cut-rate Casanovas have the capacity to allure his or her means into a woman’s sleep to start with.

But, artificial crisis phone calls and extremely vital (and undoubtedly fictional) 9 o’clock conferences separate, uncover some guidelines you can easily accompany to ensure that you leave the really love nest using your pants, maxims and maybe even a bit of scrap of dignity in courtesy. Plus they all hinge on a single simple principle: sincerity.

The post-sex escape – ‘sexit’, anybody OkCupid vs Bumble? – happens to be challenging in order to master at best of that time period. So, the minute we teach deception into blend, you’ll just make the entire steps more difficult for by yourself. Instead, approach each step regarding the morning-after minefield honestly and you won’t proceed much incorrect.


To be or otherwise not holiday? An uncomplicated doubt, with an uncomplicated response. Remain the evening – unless she’s organizing you out, definitely – whereby, issue resolved. But, if she’s bolted the doorway and hidden the pants, you’d much better buckle out and accept that you’re staying ’til direct sunlight appears.

But if you really do really need to leave – for an early-morning journey or the regular pre-work pilates – once more, be truthful. Absolutely nothing rings falser than self-diagnosed day terrors, nothing is further cowardly than an early ‘I adore you’ to scare the woman off and, should you choose to really might be meeting your own mother for lunch every morning, subsequently good luck – because that’s page one out of the little ebook of ‘I need to move out get-outs’.

And just how negative can a little snuggling generally be, at any rate?


When you look at the cool, difficult illumination of week, issues might seem poor. Whether it be a budding hangover, a lips like sandpaper and also the harsh realisation your girl resting near to we provides decreased from a solid nine to a borderline four instantaneously, the pulsating brain could be telling you to step out of bed, dash for your doorway and never review. Refuse to accomplish this. Remember, function really.

Your are performing, but desire to awaken before their. do not make an effort to conceal the steps, but get free from bed decisively and navigate to the restroom which will make yourself both appear and feel somewhat individual. Survival in an uncertain future action you can take was ‘the duvet shuffle’ – a man-tastic man strategy involving wriggling from the buttocks for the bed like a discarded sock.

And, as soon as you’re straight back from the restroom, there’s every chance that she’ll become awake at any rate.


There are no guides so you can get dressed, however, if one individual are fully-clothed until the different you have also place the company’s underclothes on, you’re about to lost incorrect.

A common pitfall of men searching serve the Lothario is to get totally dressed before she stirs, fill on their own a mug of coffee and cause, gazing faux-meaningfully out from the screen looking for them eyes to open. Once more, don’t perform this – she’ll either feel she’s woken abreast of the couple of One Flew around Cuckoo’s Nest or American Psycho – neither of which you desire.

As an alternative, maybe throw some pants on and take a seat on mattress. Function flippantly – and truly.


When you shouldn’t ever depart before she wakes up, you will want ton’t overstay your own great possibly.

If she offers you lunch, softly drop, but instead promote to take the girl out to breakfast – she’ll likely talk about no, but she’ll love the gesture. Explore exactly what projects that you have, which really should never need sleeping – a gentleman always has a place for. Before you leave, find a notepad or sheet of paper by which to jot down your very own amount. In this manner, you set the ‘next step’ ball strongly in her court. Never ever get out of their credit, however – you dont need to flip an informal meet up into an industry purchase.

Eventually, finish with a hug relatively a hug and, should you have had fun and are also curious about witnessing this model again, inform them – so long as you didn’t, don’t. Recall, therefore can’t stress this enough, whether or not it is not really what they wish to hear, ladies enjoyed an obvious thing principally people, hence’s integrity – seriously.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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