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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



Reddit owner tennesseelamb expected the website’s individuals, “What changes one down a girl?”

Guys possess some feedback regarding your lady-behavior, and in this article simply.

the Reddit people experienced some feedback. I have compiled the absolute best advice and detailed these people in the following, to be able of attraction. Word-of extreme caution: this is certainly from Reddit, very please take it all with a grain of salt, and even more importantly, try to be yourself. I’m a fat weirdo exactly who stares at the lady telephone all day and quite often talks exclusively in rhyme (I am an ucertain future?) and that I’m married to an incredible man who adore myself owing those ideas, not just in the face of all of them. So just do a person, you fabulous unicorn.

The good news is, on top of the tv series! Here is what changes (some) males down:

1. Not honest. This appears fairly basic. Confidence is an essential part of a relationship and in case there is no need that, you lack something. This really is Union 101. Afterwards!

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2. Excessive self-centeredness. It’s good to enjoy on your own, but possibly attempt to stay away from generating aside with yourself within the mirror each morning. (some days.)

3. Pretending to become dumb to gather eyes. You just aren’t silly, so normally perform.

4. Pretending becoming awkward. I assume never assume all guy desires date a tipsy Zooey Deschanel. (Although, i’ll state, acquiring drunk with Zooey Deschanel is most likely very exciting. You could potentially painting your very own fingernails 10 various delicate shades and now you understand she can do a mean braid.)

5. Being on your very own phone regularly. Some other individual added, “in identical vein, actually nurturing about Snapchat or Instagram enough which it obstructs the real world.” Well, next, i suppose I’ll most likely never come one, OH THOROUGHLY. (J/K I’m partnered and my husband doesn’t bring a shit.)

6. hoping to get your to act jealous. On the other hand, we see a relationship tips and advice book when in spite of this it really is vital to make a guy some sort of jealous so he will set a ring onto it. I do believe Beyonce blogged it.

7. enjoying difficult to get. I suppose desiring some guy to get results for this is a no-no? Although, truthfully, if he or she isn’t ready is a tiny bit, was all previously also worth it?

8. laying of your needs. If you know where you wanna consume, you shouldn’t simply tell him decide thereafter pout if it’s not really what you prefer. Say that you want Chipotle. You mostly wish Chipotle. (Don’t worry, he does too.)

9. Narrow-mindedness. Appears good. Judge not, lest a person end up being gauged, love everybody else, you need to be cool, etc.

10. Inside, being also open-minded. So what can I say? People tend to be confusing, emotional wildlife. They don’t know very well what they want to gain.

11. Helplessness. Men like women who get shit carried out.

12. Dealing with your social media profile enjoy it’s your career. Although, becoming good, sometimes it is your career. As well as in that case, you really should address it as so because getting terminated isn’t the greatest. In any other case, i assume you can shut down Instagram every once in awhile. If you like.

13. Perhaps not reciprocating products. One example from Reddit: “I had been using ex for 6 a very long time and through those 6 years I aided their through the woman has difficulties with depression and self-destruction. Fighting every step of the way. She constantly said she got very pleased and need to carry out anything she could to aid me easily ever had battles. About five years into our very own connection we started initially to build compulsive habits and rite at some point have diagnosed with OCD and what they also known as ‘light Autism’. The 2nd we stepped on and let her know We possibly could notice inside her look which it troubled the woman. Fast forward to annually later there was a poor evening and I got cleaned simple mouth for a fourth your time because we stored ruining how I put down my personal tooth brush. She looked over me personally disgusted and placed that evening to ‘receive a rest from using it.’ I have not just viewed them since or talked to the woman.”

14. Perhaps not complimenting all of them. Occasionally guys need to be advised their particular ass does not search large in those pants. Chuck a boy a compliment once in a long time.

15. Not being true. You shouldn’t portray video games. Just be on your own and find a dude exactly who enjoys the option you are actually (and the other way around). Seeing that’s good advice.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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