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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



One felt flattered, though, the truth is, you might have actually recommended him or her to tell you anything

Butaˆ¦a female are only able to grab plenty complementary reviews.

Plenty previously! Simple bodyaˆ™s horny! I know!

All women loves are complimented, in case his or her attention try solely individual human body, heaˆ™s not getting recognize your at a much deeper levelaˆ¦nor is actually this individual looking into this.

9. A person Donaˆ™t Grasp Far About Him

Heaˆ™s deliberately trying to keep you from discover him or her.

During the time you tell your companion you mayaˆ™ve recently been going out with this guy for monthly, she questions just what he is doing. Your be reluctant.

Uhaˆ¦something in law administration I presume? Perhaps a firefighter? Sea? Hmaˆ¦

Next she demands if he has got group here.

I think the man described a 2nd uncle when removedaˆ¦Iaˆ™m uncertain.

If after a few days you understand nothing more than this guyaˆ™s title and precisely what he or she looks like naked, thataˆ™s by-design. Heaˆ™s maybe not attempting to allow you to into their living.

He may look at you once or twice every week. You can create both chuckle. But heaˆ™s live a barrier that keeps through acquiring way too near your. Because if you begin possessing emotions for him, his access to booty happens to be blocked and heaˆ™s surely got to begin once again with a person new (or start working on an additional people the man currently possess in revolving).

10. Heaˆ™s Comfortably Obtained Justifications The Reason He Canaˆ™t Hang with Your Friends

If you think an individualaˆ™re truly a relationship he, they stands to reason that youaˆ™d wanna introduce him or her towards friends. Yetaˆ¦every individual energy a person increase an idea, he’s got an excuse.

Heaˆ™s out-of-town that week end (though Instagram shows if not).

Heaˆ™s ill (though Instagram shows otherwise).

Heaˆ™s grabbed the plumbing company arriving (though Instagram reveals normally).

If they will keep thwarting the tries to submit your your neighbors, just take that among the signal the guy just wishes love. He is doingnaˆ™t wish to accomplish anything that reeks of aˆ?boyfriend.aˆ? Satisfying your friends suggests that an individual two happen to be something, in which he surely doesnaˆ™t desire to communicate that to themaˆ¦or to you personally.

11. They Looks Virtually Too Good To Be True

He or she comes down all president Charmingaˆ¦but happens to be he?

Heaˆ™s carrying out all the proper points. Texting an individual. Complimenting we. Leading you to seem like a sex goddess. You actually donaˆ™t think heaˆ™s showing these marks he or she merely wants intercourse.

So why are you currently encountering this write-up?

In some cases if action seems too-good to be true, simply. Youaˆ™re surviving in a fantasy business in this dude. That works for your first couple of schedules, but after several weeks, you both should really be allowing your own hair off somewhat being even more their traditional selves.


If he is constantly on the continue the president fascinating act, itaˆ™s probable since he willnaˆ™t should allow you to into his own cardiovascular system.

Judgment: If They Indicates Signal He Merely Wishes Sexaˆ¦

If, looking at this informative article and seeing the clip over, a personaˆ™re nodding your brain furiously mentioning, the guy merely wishes sex. Exactly how achieved I certainly not see it earlier? letaˆ™s now tackle what you long for to accomplish after that.

If you should yourself merely decide a hookup, itaˆ™s no problem. Youaˆ™re both acquiring exactly what you need within the different. Provided that feelings donaˆ™t come into play, no-one receives injure.

Because youaˆ™re a Sexy self-assured Lady which says the material I write in this article about enjoy and determination, I do think thataˆ™s not really what you’re looking for. I do believe a personaˆ™d adore more than anything because of this chap to adjust their negative man approaches and fall for a person.

I dislike being the bearer of not so good news, but itaˆ™s maybe not going to take place.

In place of carry on and sleep due to this dude and privately attempt to winnings their cardiovascular system, an individualaˆ™re better off lowering connections with your and finding an individual who is in a position for a genuine and available relationship. A person which, while he likes having sexual intercourse along with you, is seeking a whole lot more. A person you may be on your own with.

One final note: while I never ever determine any girl for how soon she sleeps with a man, carry out realize that how soon you have got love-making with a person communicates certain matters to him. If you should sleep with him or her regarding the earliest or 2nd meeting, heaˆ™s planning, sheaˆ™s out for hookups. Amazing!

Whereas, if you wait until you know the other person best (although you mayaˆ™re rebuffing his plus raging testosterone), youraˆ™re very likely having long-range relationship prospective. Youaˆ™ve caused it to be crystal clear that you aren’t looking laid-back sexual intercourse, in which he should have had time to being mentally purchased a person.

Just in case you ask meaˆ¦sex is much better once you understand friends additional.

Thus consult me personally. Precisely what signs the guy just need gender have you seen in the guy youraˆ™ve outdated? Exactly what did you does about any of it?

Furthermore, in the event youaˆ™d desire enroll with me personally on an exciting new presentation to educate yourself on aˆ?why people flake, avoid desire and continually soul until they fulfill a female whoaˆ™s next these 7 simple stepsaˆ?, consequently enter here (itaˆ™s 100percent free of cost).

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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