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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



‘it is small talk purgatory’: what Tinder taught myself about appreciate

I did not inchoose to be single in the rural town where I live. We’d bought a house with enough space for children. Then the wedding was off and I found myself single in a town where the non-student population is 1,236 people. I briefly considered flirting with the cute local bartender, the cute local mailmanthen realised the foolishness of limiting my ability to do things such as get mail or get drunk in a town with only 1,235 other adults. For the first time in my life, I decided to date online.

One thing around speaking with consumers on Tinder is the fact its boring. Extremely an obnoxious types of conversation snob and also have a pathologically reasonable tolerance for small talk. I prefer individuals who fall under the sounding advisable Sad People Flaunting Their unique Intelligence With Panache. I adore Shakespeare’s fools and Elizabeth Bennet and Cyrano de Bergerac. I like Gilmore teenagers along with West side and Rick And Morty. I’d like a conversation mate which takes a trip through loads of fascinating materials at breakneck fast, yelling over their unique arm at myself: keep up to date. I would like a discussion lover exactly who thinks i will be all the way up for concern, which thinks the best of me personally.

He’d a dark sense of humour, he was amusing, so he put all his baggage nowadays at risk instantaneously

It’s not going to treat you to learn that that is a totally batshit approach to plan Tinder and this, for your snobbery, We settled a cost.

One boy I talked with exactly who met my favorite conversational specifications was an academic, an artist. He or she coached refugee kiddies how to play iron drums. Actually through all of our little chitchat gap it had been obvious he was fully and messily real human, that I appreciated, and so all of us talked everyday, for several days, i could not wait around to meet up with him or her.

World had been various. What received appeared enthusiastic and daring on the internet, turned into alarmingly intensive. There had been multiple rounds of rips, there are suggested car journeys to Fl to meet up with his or her woman and dog, there were an unexpected accordion serenade, there are am the statement that I would making an extremely gorgeous pregnant female. Tune in: I reckon a guy who is able to cry is an evolved person. I hope to some night need kids, which, I suppose, would require becoming, for a while, a pregnant lady. We actually just like the accordion. Not one of that had been worst itself, nevertheless ended up being a lot. After I mentioned I didn’t want to meeting further they directed me adorable letterpress notes in post with distressing ideas inside in spite of this he was upset, little, mad, that I wouldn’t give us an attempt.

I chalked this event over to bad luck, and lasting to only date those that have who I experienced intriguing on line talks.

I would relocated here with my fiance after using an appropriate career at neighborhood college

Simple further IRL go steady had only transferred to nyc by way of European countries and got a collector of lightweight articles and observations. Our very own talks grabbed the form of prolonged prevents of text. Anecdotes traded and interrogated. Tales from globe given to both like choices decreased at each and every other’s ft .. I favor similar things; I am a magpie in your mind.

Nevertheless these reviews came to be sick in real life. My favorite date put nearly all of our personal meal dialogue monologuing about People in america had been most excessive fat, which caused it to be hard love our chiles rellenos. But when most people went back to his own suite for a drink, it actually was delightfully decorated: saturated in crops and woven hangings and a bicycle propped against a shelf high in books. He had been smart and good looking and type horny lesbian chat of an asshole, but probably in a way that would cool with time in a Darcy-ish way. You drank some drink and in the end I stated i ought to go homeward but this individual got up-and kissed me personally, kissed myself better, thus I taught me personally this is what internet dating was actually like, i should carpe diem and also an event.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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