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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



Iaˆ™m single. Have been for some time, Iaˆ™m likewise underemployed.

In Addition? Because I observed the interviews keep working to other individuals, the temp employment dwindle to almost nothing, and found myself a greater number of frustrated, broke and despondent, I made a decision to get started my own service my personal passion. We still need a *lot* realize, but Iaˆ™ve realized excellent mentors, apprenticed myself over to anyone for almost a year, and Iaˆ™ve encompassed me personally with excellent those who identify the talents and help me along in the slightest possible.

I get the job done literally 16-18 days just one day, both at my part task at a restaurant as well as for my favorite visitors. Iaˆ™ve had wants our consumers as well as their specifications. And I am continue to awesome split. That, in and also alone, was demoralizing. sadly being aware of You will find some power over my favorite long term future, that Iaˆ™m not just completely right at the whim of a supervisor (although each buyer try a boss in their own approach), I believe greater about myself personally. Maybe not browsing lay, right after I actually make sufficient to simply shell out my bills but to travel down and to meeting, Iaˆ™ll feel great. But itaˆ™s hard. This market? It takes in unbelievably. Itaˆ™s the generationaˆ™s Quality Anxiety.

Thus, promote the lady passions, urge the talents. Maybe sheaˆ™ll strike upon her very own entrepreneurial venture. And hey, it will donaˆ™t need to be such a thing amazing. Maybe sheaˆ™s excellent ironer and she provides individuals your neighborhood to iron their shirts for a compact price. I know of many unemployed anyone whoaˆ™ve begun private helper service as they are establishing a company by doing this.

Thereaˆ™s usually individuals with a requirement the two canaˆ™t meet on their own, and benefit of not-being a part of a company is that you may do the smaller waste that enterprises would pay no attention to. A penny might not be a great deal, but mount up some of de as well as buy some awesome belongings. Extremely, their efforts shouldnaˆ™t always ought to be in a corporate planet. And achieving some kind of method to generate profits and to possess some control over them potential future will help this model reconstruct their self worth.

Wow. Iaˆ™m unsure how to feel about all of this.

I’d caution one to join the information of aˆ?lazyaˆ? and attribute that to every single thing. Weaˆ™re acquiring this used to say the least. One personaˆ™s aˆ?lazyaˆ? is yet another personaˆ™s aˆ?Iaˆ™ve hit your limitaˆ?.

I’ve been unemployed for more than 36 months starting, since that time We graduated. The greatest career Iaˆ™ve had had been a 6-week deal. I do obtain the occasional free-lance tasks or gig or information of the type, but itaˆ™s unusual and unknown. I’ve owned some awesomely enjoyable opportunities, however they happened to be brief; certainly one of my own favourites involved me to feel a student, but have gotnaˆ™t already been one for years today.

Complicating the matter would be that now I am on a bridging charge, and so the Australian administration is now being MEGA LONG on approving my favorite lasting residency. Commercially I am able to get the job done any career, but folks are hesitant to employ users on a bridging credit because theyaˆ™ve never heard of they. At this point I canaˆ™t create Centrelink (friendly protection), career help, government-funded vocational coaching, scholarships, grants, something that touches federal funds. Items that my personal underemployed peers can at any rate rely on. (However we pay taxation aˆ“ and think wherein that cash goes?) Also, I have an ethnic label, and thereaˆ™s recently been research that visually show that ethnical manufacturers are generally less likely to get retained or surveyed compared to those with more Anglo companies aˆ“ regardless of the same RESUME. Iaˆ™ve thought about shifting our label several times, but which would call for altering 2 countriesaˆ™ really worth of papers.

I sample. Seriously would drilling check out. We have services event to equal simple colleagues. Iaˆ™ve eliminated worldwide, recently been associated with various scales of tasks worldwide, developed a name for myself personally. Really a devoted volunteer. I have a BA. Iaˆ™ve switched the resume five times and check out many address emails and purposes. Iaˆ™ve done the standard *and* the unconventional. So far not one of that it seems that matters, not merely one whit. The most popular de quelle fai§on I have? aˆ?we all liked your own application!aˆ¦but weaˆ™ve made a decision to employ some other person.aˆ?

Iaˆ™ve already been refused from *interviews* from employment that i used to be this type of a shoo-in just for the the previous container (who had been leaving for a visit) suggested We incorporate, because of the explanation of aˆ?not keeping the suitable degreeaˆ? aˆ“ and then discover a buddy of my own *without* the aˆ?Right degreeaˆ? have the tasks (then not take action because she was actually off sometimes). Iaˆ™ve come declined for work because i used to be instructed that I had to consider between being a producer and a performer: someone that got chose was also a producer & performer and accomplishednaˆ™t require decide. Iaˆ™ve had temperature agencies know me as as much as inform me aˆ?sorry, you canaˆ™t supportaˆ? aˆ“ knowning thataˆ™s after they encountered the courtesy to contact. We canaˆ™t reapply for work at Woolworthaˆ™s, not really as a cashier chick, given that they turned down an application from me from and wonaˆ™t let me revise the information or reapply. Iaˆ™ve applied to end up being a stripper, home better, babysitter, cashier, waitress, administrator associate, assistant, teas lady, all sorts of haphazard opportunities. Not merely one chew. (let alone sugar daddies the jobs which can be actually *in* my personal industry.) We canaˆ™t actually have retained at destinations Iaˆ™ve *worked before*.

Funny thing is actually, there are lots of individuals who decide my favorite techniques!

Itaˆ™s gotten to the purpose that task services *trigger me*. I’ll clear a job review page and freeze. It does take me centuries determine gather up the strength to write a loan application. Itaˆ™s disappointing and hard when youaˆ™re trying to sell your self being aware of, *just knowing*, they might deny you and not make the effort to share with you the reasons why.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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