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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



He was enjoying we. She is operating currently since he dont have you to consider worry.

And so I constantly believed that behavior write louder than statement

but i’m nervous extremely so blindsided by love that i’m only viewing what I need and thinking plenty of lip assistance. I am just 41 years of age and have been in a selective commitment with a guy 13 ages young than myself for just about twelve months. He or she tells me he or she loves myself dearly but really feeling he or she believes he is doing. This individual informs me he or she really wants to spend the rest of our everyday lives jointly Unfortunately his actions were greatest me to inquire everything. He’s got been divided from his own partner for 3 years sufficient reason for plenty of pressing from me personally he’s registered for divorce proceedings. Nevertheless neither at least one can sound like to consider to show upward the planned legal times together with the finalization of the divorce or separation helps to keep obtaining held off. The man continued a relationship and remained with another young woman for escort Baton Rouge about 12 months, between the girlfriend and myself with not all many months as just one people. Both of these young women within his previous lied and duped and really shattered his own emotions by-the-way, after all these were totaly scandalous bitches. So he was managing his own folks as soon as we begun internet dating and also in the intrest of secrecy this individual started residing at my favorite room large numbers of, untill the guy survived indeed there complete regular. He or she and the 8 yr old loved one are suffering from a great freindship along with his 3 most young daughters, centuries 2,5,&7. Going possessing thier month-to-month visits with him within my quarters. I prefer young ones and loved all of them without delay. And then simple disabilities and persistent problems realized getting them here occasionally overwhelming. Most people befan to share acquiring a place jointly when your rent ended up being in the implementing annum and then he help me with the debts some sort of and taken care of all of our recreation. But he or she slowly and gradually attended move much less until he was eventually discharged. We advised him or her right away I could not monetarily supporting him. On my impairment returns sufficient reason for some tremendously unbelievable cash advance expenses, I became battling to keep nutrients on the table.. thus I let him know the reality of it and that he claimed he wouk

And so I constantly considered that measures talk even louder than text, but I am just afraid I am hence blindsided by enjoy that i’m only witnessing what I want and assuming some lip service. I will be 41 years of age and have been in an exclusive commitment with a person 13 decades more youthful than me for almost a year. The guy tells me he likes me dearly and I undoubtedly feel he or she feels he does. The guy informs me they desires spend remainder of our lifetimes collectively Unfortunately his own practices are actually top us to wonder almost everything. They have recently been split up from their wife for 36 months in accordance with some forcing from me they have registered for divorce case. Nevertheless neither one of these can seem like to not forget to indicate all the way up for your arranged legal goes as well finalization regarding the divorce process will keep getting postponed. This individual continued a connection and kept with another young woman for about a-year, involving the partner and myself with just a few days as one boyfriend. The two of these younger women on his earlier lied and duped and really smashed his own cardiovascular system by the way, what i’m saying is they were totaly scandalous sluts. So he had been experiencing their mom as soon as we began online dating plus in the intrest of comfort they set about staying in my room many more, untill this individual survived there ’round the clock, together with his or her parentwaway

Extremely Iaˆ™m browsing your writing clearly because I need to find more point of views

nevertheless all your reports in aˆ?ask a guyaˆ? I have found somewhat stressing. As lady turning 40 soon enough without the need to be based upon somone either psychologically or economically, Im wondering to determine what’s ur thoughts on womenaˆ™s views. Furthermore, as you banished the term need, inside her point of view, u elegantly advised all of them the manaˆ™s desires happens to be a top priority rather. Really seated in this article and feel that u are only serving the same kind of history we’d for like 50-60 in the past during state that’snaˆ™t urs obviously ( from a northern eruropean state with identical legal rights gender a good idea but also higly aware on partners treatments in order to satisfy eachothers needs whilst in those). We find out you speak lots about people and also that their demands should reduce to a level just where they’re not delighted sometimes, all though i actually do agree totally that they ought to don’t ever place themselves in a position wherein simply needy and take advantage of a mind curve that may damage their own everyday life and happiness. But, you emphasize the guys requirements, and exactly why are the ones more valuable than a womanaˆ™s requirements in a serious romance? Why must she getting cutting back on the desires and needs in a relationship because boys has another way? People has to learn that as long as they donaˆ™t wake up and do it,or as long as they donaˆ™t consider as they are forthright, they are going to be left individual for entire life, everlastingly bachelors. The reason donaˆ™t u mention that fact as well? Itaˆ™s not that You will find many guidance for relations moving good, but i recognize whenever a woman thinks excluded and put aside, concerning connection and focus, she will put for someone else, hitched or not. Itaˆ™s a rather kown fact my personal years, several american countries has highest devorce statistics. Perhaps u are not of sufficient age nevertheless to carry out ur thoughts openly Eric? At least to not ever those a lot of vulnerable in here, which can be small and also havenaˆ™t discovered that safety they are going to view when mature enough, regardless generation or exactly what has u? Iaˆ™d enjoy discover a comment on these exact things. Maybe u should also take a trip even more before supplying any person any pointers, like observing the whole world first of all? What exactly do I know.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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