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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



Cross country relationships having said that are saddled utilizing the burden that is additional of separation which makes lovers susceptible to straying

Adopting a wait-and-see stance

Often partners residing far from one another usually do not think that their relationship could work but during the time that is same are reluctant to allow get of every other. Then this is not a relationship at all and will get you nowhere if you keep sitting on the fence, waiting to see how things might turn out. To the contrary, each other usually takes advantageous asset of the puzzled status of one’s relationship and begin dating some other person. Therefore if things are nevertheless murky, have actually a chat that is frank your lover. Then address the modalities necessary of how you can go about it if you do not believe you can make this work, move on gracefully but if you truly feel that you both love each other.

Clarify trust problems

If indeed you imagine which you have actually simply cause of concern, then want to talk to your lover. Select a right time whenever you understand he can be free and tell him beforehand you will phone. As opposed to establishing into annoyed terms and dramatic accusations, use a relaxed modulation of voice while talking to him. Additionally stay away from emotions and feelings as reason for the insecurities and worries, instead state in clear words exactly just what has offered you cause for worry like maybe a feminine vocals when you look at the history whenever you called him at two each morning or a co-worker whom stated to possess seen another man to your partner in intimate circumstances at a nightclub. After your partner offers his/her part of this tale, place a finish into the matter then and here. Choosing regarding the issue that is same and once again can not only distance your partner even more, but much more likely push him/her to your hands of the very most same individual you will be accusing your spouse of cheating with. All you could may do is always to pose a question to your partner to share with you the truth – whether you trust him/her enough to be honest is another matter entirely.

Lead a working life

One of the better techniques to stay far from an event will be develop a help community of relatives and buddies who are able to satisfy your social requirements. As you are if you are distressed at seeing all your previous pals with their partners over the weekends, make friends from the same sex who are single or in the same situation. While buddies of this reverse intercourse can be supportive, spending too much effort alone using them may be potentially dangerous – apart from giving cause of suspicion to your lover, additionally cause you to a difficult event. On top of that, cultivate passions and hobbies which you love and may pursue in a team. You will be now absolve to pursue your own personal passions and now have sufficient time for you to discover additional skills besides being steering clear of the wear that is day-to-day tear of ordinary relationships which regularly drive partners far from one another. On top of that you will no longer simply just simply take one another for granted and relish every moment of togetherness with a zest you won’t ever knew before.

Have actually faith

Finally your strongest resource in surviving temptations will likely to be having faith within the relationship. There’s absolutely no dearth of pessimists who will be prepared to compose off cross country relationships as not practical and so impractical to keep. Don’t believe all that experts state because as soon as you give directly into their negative reviews, you are going to constantly feel haunted by its dangers – both imagined and that is real it’s going to really destroy your relationship. Alternatively, centering on the pluses of a LDR and doing all of your bit to help keep your relationship exciting goes a way that is long assisting you to avoid affairs and permit one to enjoy your relationship whole-heartedly.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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