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What About the Other 90%??

If a woman is on her back 10% of the time, what is a man bringing the other 90% of the time? But, don’t judge a book by it’s cover. This book provides tools for women to deal with the undertow that undermines the very thing they say they want.

By Chanda R. Mitchell

EBOOK/ISBN-ISBN-13: 978-0615739328
USD: $14.99/CAD: $17.99

ON SALE: April 1, 2021GENRE: Nonfiction/Personal Growth/Self-Improvement/Spiritual Growth



Anything you do is incorrect and right at once.

1. A guy may just like your dress while another may talk about you’re greatest together with your sex — don’t you’ve got

2. It will be actually odd to slip into your sex part. If you’re ever being subservient to men or taking pleasure in something like preparing you set about to wonder in case suggests you are poor or a negative feminist. You will need to doubt every natural need you really have and surprise if you should undoubtedly experience the factor or if you are just trained to enjoy it.

3. They’ll always inform you you may be getting psychological. Really a really psychological individual, but I’m also really reasonable (getting a philosophy diploma does indeed that to a person). But i am aware a lot of people throughout my existence that dreadful at creating conclusion or at their unique associations since they’re as well psychological disabled chat room cam. Most are lady as well as some are generally guys — except any time guys are psychological that emotion is referred to as “anger” and it doesn’t share the same mark to be “illogical” attached to it.

4. Your very own relationship really ex-girlfriends is going to be better than the relationship along with your man. I dont decide this being the case, i would like a deep union with everybody. But my favorite girlfriends learn how hard actually to be a lady and the way they exhausting it is getting plenty targets positioned on your. I am able to weep before all of them without being a stereotype. I will be available along with them without fearing assessment. Since hard since I is, I just now have gotn’t had the capacity to get to this levels with one.

5. There’s no easy reply to the neurological time clock matter. Women can be lacking girls and boys within their childbearing many years. All of us drop by college, you work to help ourselves, you seek out males we need to invest our everyday lives with. There’s truly not a chance around it at this juncture. Having been definitely not fulfilling people at age 20-25 which planned to beginning that part of her resides, also it would be an economic inability. Perhaps we’ll establish workarounds for the next generation but for now, we’re stayed trying to figure out what all of our most suitable option try. Hold back until the time is right and expect things works out alright? Prioritize young ones the actual fact that most people aren’t positive that we would like them/can help all of them? It’s a hard location, and there’s no flat road to accompany.

6. The most confusing partnership you’ll have is by using your very own mama. Inside teenagers, one detest the lady, in your earlier 20’s you skip the, after that you depend on the guidelines almost like actually Bible. Nearly all women don’t need to being their particular mama, but they still like and esteem this model — and finish coming to be similar the girl in any event.

7. the essential difference between getting nurturing being a doormat will be the Everest. Exactly what, just, is the improvement? How can you support individuals without smothering them or without allowing them to take full advantage of we? How do you getting a wife and mama without losing your own identity?

8. It’s acceptable to say by yourself. Ladies are coached are valuable or not is an excessive amount of a concern. Or way too much of nothing for that matter. However’s ok to inquire about what you need. Exactly how otherwise will group realize? Inquire him or her to identify the connection or processor in for organize B. require facts when the repair shop offers you a price. Pose a question to your employer in which person perceives your job heading. These aren’t burdensome problems, they are fully reasonable and standard.

9. It is best ton’t apologize unless you mean it. It’s okay to not end up being sad.

10. There Is Not Any these types of factor as a “Real Wife.” A “Real Woman” keeps curvature or perhaps is smooth as a pancake. She actually is high or shorter or whatever sizing she finds by herself. All women is actually a proper wife because she is an actual live individual. You can find numerous various exact lady because there are real ladies.

11. The individuals you’re pitted against nearly all in your lifetime are many other ladies. do not fall for they. Begin “Real Women” discussion above. “A bloom does not believe competing with the floral together with it. It just blossoms.”

12. Any Time You do something unpopular, you may be also known as ridiculous. It’s most likely not correct it’s just statement. Wash it off and move ahead.

13. One guy’s affirmation or love isn’t the conclusion society. Like is good and true but that person that you are whining over probably isn’t Adore. Guys are anywhere and the most of these want to keep in touch with a person. They provide it more difficult internet dating best than females, we possess the upperhand. On to the then one.

What About the Other 90%??

What's Inside?

  • An understanding of why women choose the men they choose
  • The purpose for which a woman was created
  • A little about Chanda’s life
  • Insight into the basic needs of a woman
  • How powerful a man can be in a woman’s life


When Chanda Mitchell told me that she was going to write a book on the 90% that women are missing out on from men, I was intrigued by the title, “What About the Other 90%?” I thought the title was extremely thought provoking and the question needed to be asked and addressed and answered and not by a man but by another woman who’s been living it out in real time.

In our society we desperately need women authors to rise up and speak to the heart of where their readers live through every day and bring answers to the table that make sense.

Wray Wade
City Council Member at City of Longview

Ms. Mitchell was a welcoming addition to my media team during my re-election campaign for Longview City Council. Most recently she assisted me with interviews with a local television station, which went incredibly well.

Haley Brooke Griffin
Owner of DuBeck& Co

Awesome program! They really helped me with business ideas and even gained business for me. Great experience with Momentum Builders, LLC..

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